Terence B’s story

“Life after bowel cancer diagnosis.

Bowel cancer is a tough show. To ensure your “show goes on”, it is essential that at the first signs, you put your trust in the professional medical teams. It is quite frightening at first but put your head down and go for what you are advised. After every “dark night” the sun eventually rises. I know, I’ve had a few in my three main separate episodes.

I have been reluctant to describe my journey, as some bits were tough. But, after 22 years, seven new grandchildren, a marvellous partner, my journey has been (and continues to be) worth the ride!

I have been fortunate to have many excellent surgeons, doctors, nurses, associated medical professionals and an excellent oncologist. Never fear, they are there waiting to help you too!

I had been “married” to my work for over ten years since divorce. Living basically alone and if not at work in NSW, on flights all around the world. In 1998, I started a crazy ten months flying back and forth between Albury, NSW and Auckland, New Zealand.

By about April, I started to occasionally be woken up during the night by often quite severe pain in the gut. Often, to try and relieve the pain, a visit to the toilet was tried. I then noticed a bit of blood occasionally.

To this day, I can’t reconcile my cowardice to go and get checked out. It most likely has made the outcomes even worse than they needed to be.

Folks, never give up, especially too early. Do not put faith in DR Google. It generally doesn’t know you and your problems. Follow the professional advice and care from our great medical resources.

I’m here after over 22 years to enjoy my seven growing grandkids and my partner. Life comes with many challenges. I mentioned my many dark nights. But there are a bloody sight more bright days.” ~ Terence.

As a member of Bowel Cancer Australia’s Peer-to-Peer Support Network, Terence shares his personal story to help raise much-needed awareness, support other people living with or beyond bowel cancer, and their loved ones.⁠